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Writer's pictureSuzanne Warren

Sometimes everything just feels really hard


(Image from @Maybell.EFquay)

At a time when the cost of living crisis has hit — strikes have crippled the NHS — climate change is on the agenda — more people are developing mental health problems — life can seem just that bit harder to navigate.


Feeling negative — lonely — resentful or even jealous of what others have or you perceive them to have can be a real challenge to manage. Those with long-term health conditions can be the hardest hit. With limited social interaction and smaller networks to support them they can become isolated and find it very hard to cope with everyday living.

Reach out is directed at young people having tough times and promotes 10 top tips for coping with the hard stuff. The same principles can be applied to anyone and include:

  • Talking to someone

  • Journalling

  • Self-love

  • Take a break

  • Be nice to yourself

  • Take a step back

  • Think about the big picture

  • Focus on the positive

  • Say Thanks

  • Do something, anything!

Life hack also has suggestions on how to tackle tough times and says we can benefit from:

  • Staying positive

  • Getting creative

  • Learning from the difficult times

  • Changing things up

  • Focusing on what you can control and not what you can’t

  • Realising you’ve come a long way

  • Building your community

  • Being kind to yourself

  • Forgiving

The lists above may make it sound simple but it can be far from that. Picking one element to focus on at a time can support us as we progress through the difficult spells in our lives. Making it stronger — building resilience and building positivity that we feel even when faced with challenges we have come through them before so we can do it again.



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